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District Staff

District Superintendent
Rev. Dr. Cody Collier

Administrative Assistant
Nancy Esry

Reception/ Phone
Gary Loar

Office Manager
Barbara Webb

Bookkeeper
Coni Walters
Who do I
contact about Heartland South District Ministries?
Youth
Rev. Bill Kenagy
660-464-0251
Lay Speaking
Lucinda Kenagy
660-464-0254
Mission
(VIM) Rev. Bill Kenagy
660-464-0251
Nancy
Mountain
660-647-2354
Scouting
Cliff McBride
660-826-1910
Dalene Rosine
816-322-7650
Disaster Relief Coordination
Rev. James Stanfield-Myers
816-779-5442
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District Superintendent Rev. Dr. T. Cody Collier's
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September 2, 2009
September:
a Good Time for Rethinking Church!
I was recently discussing with a group
of pastors new to the district their hopes and dreams, observations,
and challenges in their setting of ministry. I witnessed their
excitement about their church and readiness to lead the church into
a magnificent future. They all talked about the listening sessions
they are having with members and also the importance of offering
people passionate worship. Then, as the group talked about
challenges, it was great to hear them each share their focus of
identifying opportunities for the congregation to connect, provide
relief, support, and be a face of hope with people beyond their
church doors.
One discussed the possibility of a
coffee house in the downtown area. Another pastor discussed using a
building in the community that the church purchased to address the
overwhelming need of children and youth who would not normally walk
into the doors of a church. And another colleague talked about
building a relationship with the school principal, teachers, and
elected officials in the community. They were already helping their
congregations in rethinking how to move beyond the comfortable walls
of the church into the world. They were rethinking what they wanted
the discipleship and outreach of their ministry setting to look like
in the next five years.
In the words of one of my favorite
groups of the early 70’s, the Doobie Brothers,
these colleagues were essentially “Takin’
it to the Streets”—taking the message of God’s love and forgiveness.
They were rethinking what their leadership style must reflect in an
ever-changing world and generation that no longer views the church
as its first option for meaning and direction.
Rethink Church is also the theme of the
UMC Communications media campaign to expand the promise first voiced
in 2001: that the United Methodist Church represents people with
“Open Hearts. Open Minds. Open Doors.” who are intentionally and
genuinely welcoming and inviting people into a relationship with
Jesus Christ.
It is a movement posing several provocative
questions for our denomination and Heartland South District churches to
consider:
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What if church was less
about Sunday and more about the other days of the week?
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What if church wasn’t just a
place we go, but something we do?
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What if church wasn’t just a
building, but thousands of doors, each opening up to a
different concept or experience of church?
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What if our church budget
served the people outside our church more than inside?
What would it look like?
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What if our church would go
where the people are rather than waiting for them to
come to us?
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What if our church closed
tomorrow? Who would feel the impact?
My prayer in the days and weeks ahead
is that as we Rethink what it means to be the church Somewhere Out
There – Outwardly Focused, we will answer these questions as the
community of faith in positive and transforming ways.
Thinking with you,
Cody
Related Links:
Hear "Takin' it to the Streets" by the Doobie Brothers.
Click to open the
music file in a new window, may take awhile to begin.
Visit
Rethink Church 101
Visit the companion web site
10thousanddoors.org
Both can be followed on Facebook and
Twitter by signing up at Rethink Church
Downloadable promotional material for
Rethink Church visit he
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Left: Mason helps Dad, Steven Rew, lead singing
RightHS Clergy Scott Bailey-Kirk with welcome gifts.
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August 4, 2009
Dear Colleagues,
I hope this email finds you experiencing
God’s presence in a special way today, causing you to serve with new
energy, encouragement, greater faith and eager enthusiasm!
I am writing to you today first to
share the joy Sharon and I
felt as we had a chance to catch up with many of you and your families
at our recent District Picnic. We also rejoice in greeting our new
pastors to the district as well as those returning to the district in
new appointments. Greetings this morning to: Art Ellsworth, Scott
Bailey-Kirk, James Stanfield- Myers, John Payne and Asher McDaniel.
Secondly, I want to share a word about this
year’s Charge Conferences.
“Somewhere Out There – The Outwardly Focused Congregation” will be the
theme of the Charge Conferences this year as we model the many ways to
be in risk-taking mission and service. (See
Charge Conference Schedule)
I look forward to hearing you and your
leaders talk about the hands-on mission projects and outreach ministries
which push people out of their comfort zones to make a real difference
in the lives of a hungry and hurting world.
Your reflections can be in the form of
pictures, symbols, testimonies and video presentations. (Persons in
Cluster groups will need to let the host church know if you need a
projector.) It would help for the meetings in Cluster groups to be
around tables, if possible.
Please note that we will not include Holy
Communion this year because of the possible length of the teaching time
with the District Superintendent in Cluster groups. I have already
experienced a real blessing this past Sunday while I worshiped and met
with the Calhoun/Drake’s Chapel churches and fellowshipped with the Mt.
Zion and Cole Camp/Ionia charges.
Congratulations
to Aldersgate UMC which was
selected for the 2009 Best of Lee’s Summit Award in the Methodist
Churches category by the US Commerce Association!
Please
hold the date of Tuesday, September
22, 2009, for a required
pastors meeting with guest speaker,
Robert
Martin, Associate Professor of Church Leadership and Practical
Theology at Saint Paul School of Theology to be held at Woods Chapel
(Lee’s Summit) 10-2:00 p.m.
Finally, let us
keep in our prayers Harold
and Karen Johnson in the recent loss of their wonderful son, Randy
Johnson; the family of the beloved
C. Jarrett
Gray, Sr.; and the family and friends of our dear colleague
Zelena Stultz, who we have learned passed away yesterday. (Further
details will be shared as they become available.)
Blessings to all whose lives are filled with
praise, as well as those who find this day hard, punctuated with
significant decisions to make, health issues personally and among your
church setting, and immediate challenges along the way.
Always know that God is just a prayer away,
providing us comforting hope,
Cody
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 Beloved
Colleagues
Interview with
Zelena Stultz in January 09
KC Star article about
C. Jarrett
Gray, Sr.
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June 28,
2009
Colleagues-- It’s time to meet with an old friend:
Dear Quiet,
It is time to catch up with you again. I remember when I
first met you as a child climbing high into a backyard
tree. We would spend hours together enjoying the peace
above all the noise and expectations below. I liked the
way you would sing to me in the wind and tickle my
spirit to imagine the impossible. How you help me to see
and think more clearly when I’m away from life’s
distractions.
It was growing up with you that I was able to know the
power of prayer and how to be present to others. It has
been through your whispered invitation that I have found
you calming my fears and doubts through life’s
challenges. I am amazed how you always seem to be wooing
me over in unbelievable God moments.
I have failed to thank you for your presence and care
while dealing with the ongoing tension of the being and
doing of ministry: the soothing way you lift my soul as
I work on the burdensome joy of preparing a message, the
unspeakable gift of silence while holding a hand of
someone dying, the remarkable way you gave me strength
when hearing the words “you have cancer,” and the
healing that followed through slowing down rather than
running from you.
It is also in those silent places that you have reminded
me of all the wonderful people and blessings in my life.
You are teaching me daily to do no harm, do good where I
am, and stay close to you. What a way you have with me
when I am not glued to my calendar or the next meeting.
What a better and positive servant I am when I am not
spending all my time at the computer or trying to fix
every situation.
I am letting you know today, I have missed you. I am
sorry for all the excuses I have made for not getting in
touch with you. So, dear quiet friend, thank you for
always making yourself available to me. I am on my way
for a quiet visit.
I just got your message: Be still.
Colleagues,
While I visit this old friend and spend time with my
family during July 1-16, 2009, the Rev. Brent Mustoe (Aldersgate
UMC) will be available for any emergencies. I look
forward to seeing you when I return for the visits with
Bob Farr and at our District picnic, July 30, 2009.
Cody
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June
10, 2009
Dear
Colleagues,
I am still
reflecting on the exciting time of worship, learning,
preaching and fellowship during this year’s Annual
Conference. Although your DS was consumed with
Constitutional Amendments, there was an overwhelming
feeling that delegates were fired up about being
outwardly focused in their mission and witness
opportunities.
It was
gratifying to see our district in action during the
MissionCast presentation as the ministries at
Raymore, Calhoun/Drake’s Chapel, and Peculiar were
lifted up. In addition, there are many other churches
throughout our district sharing their mission outreach
on the
MissionCast that I hope you will check out on the
Conference web
site.
I was also
glad to hear about Jim Preisig’s workshop on
Permission or Forgiveness: Seeking the Freedom to be
Outwardly Focused that was standing room only.
During the Ordination service I heard about the
meaningful ways Jim Downing is leading the Order of
Elders this year. It was inspiring to hear the report
from Margie Briggs on the Social Justice Team
Risk-taking mission work and the special award given to
our own Harold Johnson.
I want to
share with you that
Bishop Joaquina Filipe Nnanala talked about how
grateful she was for the time in our district earlier
this year and for the wooden praying cross we presented
to her on behalf of our district. (Special thanks to
Sandy Feeler and Delmar for the gift.)
Perhaps what
was most gratifying for me as your DS was to look at our
district from the stage area and see the gifted and
passionate leadership of our clergy and laity in the
Heartland South District who have been Somewhere Out
There this year, addressing the needs of a hurting
world. I will, of course, be challenging you to stretch
your imagination to do even more in the days ahead. If
you or your delegate to Annual Conference did not get a
chance to fill out the questionnaire from our district
about ways that I or the district can be more helpful,
feel free to email me your suggestions.
We rejoice in
the announcement of Robert and Carly Sefrit in their
celebration of the birth of their daughter Calla
Elizabeth Sefrit. And we share the joy of our new
Elders, Donna Trollinger and Mary Lou Toft.
Please be in
prayer today for Brent Mustoe, Jeremy Vickers, Steve
Shearer, and Maureen McNeil, as well as for all of the
pastors/families who are moving this year, and for the
Cole Camp community that recently experienced the tragic
death of a family in the area.
Finally, I
would invite you to hold the date of
Thursday evening, July
30, 2009, for our District Picnic that will
again be at
Powell Gardens. (Further information to be shared
later.)
In Risk-Taking
Mission and Service,
Cody
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Dear Friends,
It’s
been a while since you have seen a picture of my grandson Alex. Alex
is now nine months old. He is continuing to grow while stumbling,
rolling over, babbling, and standing up for a few moments before falling
down again. It is amazing when you realize that he keeps falling down,
gets up, takes a few steps, falls again and then smiles as he gets up
again to start over.*


My
sense is that ministry is much like baby steps. We are constantly
praying and prodding our local church to set out to walk and grow in new
and exciting ways. Often there is fear and doubt in moving forward,
especially if you have some members who really struggle with all of the
risk and change that is needed in building the Kingdom.
I recently
was a part of the consecration service at Adrian UMC in our district for
their magnificent new addition to their building. It is roughly 7,800
square feet of space. It includes: four large classrooms, a fellowship
hall, a multi-purpose room used for a nursery, badly needed office space
and restrooms, and a beautiful gathering area with the symbol of United
Methodist Church created on the floor as a part of the entrance to the
building.
The
consecration was a moving experience for me because I remember, during
my first year in the district, meeting with the District Board of Church
Location and Building when they recommended that Adrian wait until they
had in place the finances and further plans before taking on such a
project. Ultimately, their committee took careful steps to rethink and
move forward in planning, excavating, pledging, and personally assisting
in helping their dream become a reality.
It is also
worth noting that the work was done by local people in the area. The
church understood that the purpose of God’s timing was to give them time
to fall down and get up again, hold steady, pace themselves, and look
forward rather than backward, all with the mission: “To draw people into
a relationship with God through Jesus Christ.”
The important
question I want to raise with you during the month of May is, “Are you
stuck where you are or are you moving forward?”
And the
significant promise is to know that God provides the strength, timing,
confidence and presence of the Holy Spirit for all that you are seeking
to do. You may be experiencing in your ministry some stumbling blocks;
it might seem to be taking too long for the vision to happen. You may
ask yourself, “Can I continue to do this joyfully? Does anyone care
about the sacrifice and struggle I am facing?”
The answer is
yes. You are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses, visible and all
around you, who are cheering you on. There is always available the power
of prayer.
The challenge
may be for you get on the balcony, as the authors of Leadership On
Line suggest. Step back to get perspective while remaining fiercely
engaged. Use your stress in productive ways through choosing and putting
the responsibility upon the leaders that have a heart for God work’s and
will make the changes needed. Maintain your focus while taking the heat
that comes with growth. And did I mention to keep praying so that you
are anchored yourself and help anchor others in a ministry of moving
forward?
As I was
entering the Adrian church, one of the members, who has the joy of
Christ every time I see her, remembered that first meeting when the
district committee had questions about the plans. She hugged me and said
essentially: It was worth the wait!
I hope the
image of a little child is helpful this week for someone who is walking
through some difficult challenges.
If you are
falling down, get up, smile and start again. You will be amazed what
progress you can make as one of God’s children.
Stepping
out in faith,
Cody
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Occasional Thoughts for Easter
It’s Friday,
but Sunday’s Coming!
Many of you
have heard, or possibly used as a theme, the sermon entitled, “It’s
Friday, but Sunday’s Coming.” One version is taken from a story by Tony
Campolo about a message his preaching mentor delivered. I have also had
colleagues share a powerful Word saying: however difficult the situation
in one’s life, it might feel as if you are living in a Good Friday
world, yet Sunday is coming-- to pull us all out of our tombs of despair
to new life and hope in the Resurrection.
The sermon
that
Tony Campolo describes says:

It’s
Friday. Jesus has been arrested in the garden where he was praying. But
Sunday’s coming.
It’s
Friday. The disciples have all abandoned their master. Peter denies that
he knows the Lord. But Sunday’s coming.
It’s
Friday. Jesus is beaten, mocked and ridiculed by the Roman soldiers. But
Sunday’s coming.
It’s
Friday. Jesus is in the tomb. Heaven is silent. Satan is laughing
because he thinks he’s won. But Sunday’s coming.
What a
great message for our congregations and for our diverse ministries!
I have been
reflecting on all the running I was doing prior to Holy Week one year in
my third appointment. I had just returned from a three day revival I had
led in Cartersville, Georgia. I had worked months in
advance with the worship team and music team to make each service as
meaningful as I could for the congregation. There were special themes
and a large participation of members involved in the various services
planned. However, on Friday night, I was trying to ignore a developing
pain that was shifting from side to side in my body. During the middle
of the night the pain intensified. I was crawling on the floor trying
not to wake anyone. The pain was unbearable. Sharon immediately woke up and could see that I
needed to go to the hospital. I did not argue with her, although a part
of me was saying it would eventually subside.
The doctor
took a small test and discovered I needed to be rushed into surgery for
an emergency appendectomy. As the doctor shared his diagnosis, I began
to think about all of the events planned that were leading to Easter. I
informed the doctor it was fine for him to do the surgery; however, it
would need to be performed after Easter. By this time the hospital room
was full of relatives who wanted to come after me, but felt they could
not show the Collier
temper in front of the doctor. My wife at this point said, “He’s ready
for surgery.”
I could not
imagine not preaching on Palm Sunday and possibly Easter Sunday service.
I was devastated just thinking about it.
Following
surgery, I was thinking about how I might sneak out of the hospital and
surprise everyone, perhaps giving a brief message. What I didn’t
anticipate was how weak I would feel and how much it would hurt to move.
It was on Good Friday that one of the pastors came by to remind me that,
although I was feeling bad, Sunday’s coming! God’s love is on the way to
remove all our pain, sorrow and disappointments. It was just what I
needed to hear from an unexpected voice.
On Sunday,
I felt better than I had in some time. The church had filled my room at
home with cards, Easter lilies and letters. The kids had drawn pictures
with the message: “He lives.” Sunday was no longer on the way. Sunday
was here. I did not get a chance to walk with the congregation through
the happenings of Holy Week, however on Easter Sunday morning, with a
little pain, I was able to thank God for my life and the possibilities
of new life for all of us.
Today, the
Resurrection reminds us that God can repair what is broken, raise up
what is cast down, renew what is old, and restore what appears to be
lifeless.
This week,
as you take your congregation through this Holy Week, may you be
reminded in the midst of your own personal struggles, illnesses, grief,
concerns within your family, or congregation:
It
may be Friday for you right now – but Sunday’s Coming.
Preach It
and Live it!
In faith
and hope,
Cody
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Dear
Friends,
Few times
in the Christian year call us to reflect on transformational change like
the Lenten season. Lent, as you aware, is derived from the Anglo-Saxon
word lenctem, meaning
spring. The word reflects the lengthening of days as we move from winter
toward the summer.
And Lent
reflects the forty days that Jesus wandered in the wilderness tempted by
Satan in readiness for a ministry destined for tragedy and ending in
victory. Most of us cannot imagine the level of sacrifice and commitment
Jesus endured during those forty days; yet Lent provides each of us the
opportunity for engaging in regular disciplines that can lead our
wilderness wanderings toward spiritual transformation.
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Lent is the
perfect time to seek solitude and self-reflection. Ministry can often
feel like a dry, lonely desert; so we all need to take the time for
self-care and wellness for the soul. I would encourage you to find a
place to interrupt your schedule to reconnect with God and explore the
spiritual resources that can help you inwardly and outwardly in your
daily ministry.
This
exploring may mean taking thirty minutes to read a book that gives a new
perspective on life or just allowing times throughout the day to pray.
It may also mean taking time with the cell phone, TV, and computer
turned off to clear your mind of all the stuff you are dealing with in
your world. It could be deciding this time to let go of a bad habit or
behavior that keeps you from moving forward.
Why mention
spiritual practices as we start the third week of Lent? Isn’t it too
late to be talking about this when many of us have already begun some
type of spiritual exercise? Given the level of stress and struggles we
all carry in ministry, I believe that it’s appropriate to talk about how
we clear space in our life for God during Lent and beyond.
As one
writer suggests: The lesson of Lent is not a time of sacrifice and
denial, but rather a time of preparation and anticipation – preparation
for the real work to which God calls us and anticipation of the fullness
of life that God promises.
And so this
week…
I’m
going to invite God to forgive me, tease me, renew me, and use me.
I’m
going to thank the Lord for all of the challenges and blessings in my
life.
I’m
going to make my room in Columbia, where I will be all week, a sanctuary
for spiritual refreshment.
I’m
going to run and not be weary, walk and not faint.
I’m
going to listen more to the wisdom of my grandchildren long distance.
I’m
going to continue to pray for you and your families and the special
prayers written during the Shrove
Tuesday Service.
I’m
going to live to be more teachable, changeable where needed, and
lovable.
I’m
going to offer prayers for the leader and pastors in the conference PLD.
I’m
going to ask God to stretch me to be a witness to someone under 25 to
consider ordained ministry.
I’m
going to be involved in ministries that eliminate poverty and injustice.
And I’m
not going to allow the devil to steal my joy while doing it!
Reminders for the
Journey:
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Our
Administrative Assistant, Nancy Esry, will be out of the office this
week for spring break.
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Please
begin to invite and register your leadership team for the Local
Church Leader Training, March 28, 2009. Celebration Center, First
UMC. I am expecting you to have a carload of leaders ready to serve
in new and exciting ways in this new quadrennuim.
Seeking to do no harm,
do good and staying in love with God,
Cody
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February
17, 2009
I
love to tell the story of three pastors who were having lunch together
and learned that all had been facing the same problem: all three
churches had bats in the attic. One pastor tried to solve the problem
with a shotgun, but that didn’t work. Another pastor captured them,
drove them to the country and set them free, but the bats beat him back
to the church. The third pastor said, “They’re no longer a problem at my
church.” “How did you get rid of them?” the others asked. “Well,” the
pastor said, “I baptized them and confirmed them, and they haven’t been
back since.”
The story reminds me of many churches today that have difficulty
attracting and keeping new members. I was proud to be able to report at
Cabinet Assessment that our district is up in worship attendance,
professions of faith, risk-taking mission and service, as well as
Conference Apportionments. However, there are still far too many
churches in our conference that are inwardly focused rather than
outwardly focused. They have self-destructive practices that seem only
to address maintaining the building rather than building disciples of
Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world.
We hear a lot today about best practices that are critical to the
success and health of congregations. The term best practices
refers to a leadership approach that grows out of observing and studying
church leaders and congregations that are seen to be faithful and
fruitful. It is a process of discerning, then, what are the best
practices in those settings that can be useful for other leaders and
congregations—to the end that we will help build disciples of Jesus
Christ for the transformation of the world.
Our conference is a model for the United Methodist Church as we live out
the “Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations.” These basic principles
are not only impacting the vitality of our conference but, as I visit
with people throughout our denomination and beyond, church leaders are
catching the wave of what it means to be a radical, passionate,
intentional, risk taking and extravagantly generous church in the 21st
Century.
Developing healthy and fruitful practices as church leaders is vital for
pastors who are prophets in the midst of a deep recession, who are
counselors to the countless people impacted by the increasing loss of
jobs, and who are visionary teachers in a culture that is constantly
changing. Such leaders are in tune with the spiritual/social yearning of
young adults and first time visitors who seek to be in life-changing
small groups and be involved in hands-on mission.
Leaders of congregations today must discover for themselves those
best practices that will help dispel the hopelessness many people
are feeling about their lives today while seeking to grow a church that
will help them discover meaning, purpose and hope. It is essentially
the practice of: transforming, gifting, calling, equipping and sending
people out with news too good to keep.
One such biblical leader who modeled the kind of best practices
needed today is Nehemiah. When Artaxexes gave Nehemiah permission to
leave his service as the Chief Cupbearer, he had a sense of urgency. We
hear these words in Nehemiah 2:18: I told them that the hand of my God
has been gracious upon me, and also the words that the king had spoken
to me. Then they said, “Let us start building!” So they committed
themselves to the common good.
Several practices that I like about Nehemiah that speak to me about
leadership today include:

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Nehemiah was not an American idol; he understood his role as a
visionary leader.
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Nehemiah made a challenging ministry setting into a matter of
prayer and fasting.
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Nehemiah was determined to change the status quo while changing
lives.
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Nehemiah was relational and won the confidence of people so they
would have a mind to work.
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Nehemiah took the time to discover/develop the untapped
resources of people.
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Nehemiah understood he could not rebuild the walls by
himself.
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Nehemiah never allowed finances, depression, his appointment,
detractors, new structures or systems, delays, or the past to
keep him from a marvelous future.
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Nehemiah understood the importance of fun, fellowship and faith
to keep himself together.
May it be so — for whatever you are facing this day in your ministry —
as you follow best practices in your ministry.
Lifting you up in Song, Word and Prayer as we help rebuild lives,
Cody
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January 5, 2009
Dear Colleagues,
God’s richest blessing to
each of you as we start a New Year together.
I am always excited about
the possibilities of a New Year and the opportunity to grow in Christ as
a learning Leader. One of the most important lessons I have learned in
life is that you can’t do everything and you will not be successful
without the help of others. I am the kind of person who starts the New
Year with a grand vision, big plans, a long list of things to accomplish
and a vast amount of energy for getting it all done in the first few
days. (smile)
What I am discovering
about myself as a leader in a very demanding and constantly changing
role, not to mention an ever-changing world, is that I need time as a
spiritual leader to listen, to rest, to heal, to pray, to dream, to
invite the help of others and to make it a point to do it all with great
enthusiasm, fun and gratitude for the journey.
I would encourage you to
read several times the following ten practical steps to consider for
growing a congregation and facing challenging situations by Carol J.
Gallagher in Reweaving the Sacred.
I have found them to be helpful and healthy rules for a positive future.
1.) Take small
steps. If any task seems too large for one person, break up the
work into smaller pieces and share them with others.
2.) Take time to
pray. Every day, every hour, alone or with a group – God is
listening.
3.) Share food
whenever possible. Remember that the disciples knew Jesus in the
breaking of bread. Our honest selves are shared as we share food
together.
4.) Keep breathing.
Whenever anxiety overtakes you, focus on the most normal and
life-giving things—like breathing.
5.) Tell stories.
Stories from our lives are rich with insight and meaning. We can
often find God is at work in the midst of our lives, as we tell
stories to one another.
6.) Ask for help.
No one person knows everything. That’s why we live in communities.
When we practice asking for help, others will know that their
expertise (or lack of it) is welcome in your midst.
7.) Laugh a lot.
Everything in life is easier when we laugh. Some people think they
have to be serious in church. If you don’t take your self or your
task too seriously, even the difficult tasks will be “do-able.”
8.) Take only the
steps you need to take, make only the decisions you need to
make for this part of your growth process. Don’t attempt to do
everything in one day.
9.) No one should
sit alone at gatherings, including you as leader. The message
most of us need to see, hear and feel is that we are not alone.
10.) Call each
other and thank each other regularly. Gratitude and connection
are the signs of a lively relationship.
Let us go forth in this
New Year taking the necessary steps to enjoy serving God and our
neighbors in all we do.
In Christ who strengthens
me,
Cody
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